Real theology, not just rules.

Every module goes deeper than what not to do, you will understand why God designed sex, what it actually does to your soul, and why His design is protection not restriction.

Built for your actual history.

Whether you waited, didn't wait, or never had a choice, this course speaks directly to where you are. No one gets left at the door.

You leave with a new identity, not just new information.

By Module 13 you will sign a declaration of who you are that no history, no mistake, and no wound can take from you.

Transform Your Life with Our Course

KNOWN was built for you if:   • You grew up in church and still feel confused not about the rules, but about the reason behind them  • You've made mistakes you've been quietly punishing yourself for, even after God said it was forgiven  • You can't seem to let go of someone you know isn't right for you  and you don't understand why  • You've been fighting pornography, comparison, or sexual temptation in secret  • You waited and felt grateful and confused in equal measure  • You didn't wait  and have been carrying that heavier than anyone around you knows  • Something was done to your body without your permission, and you have never found a safe space to bring that to God  • You're ready to stop managing your past and start understanding your identity

Discover the Face Behind the Words

Damilola Adelani Founder, Destined by Design Hey!  I am so glad you are here. I built KNOWN because I kept seeing the same thing over and over. People who loved God, who were doing their best, who had been in church for years  and were still walking around with questions nobody had answered, wounds nobody had named, and a history they were not sure grace could reach. That bothered me, because the conversation that could set them free? It exists. The theology is there. The scripture is there. The understanding of what God actually designed sex for, what it does to the soul, how soul ties form and break, what identity in Christ actually means for your body and your history.  All of it is there. It just was not being said clearly enough for real people with real lives. So I built KNOWN. And I poured everything into it, the theology, the neuroscience, the pastoral care, the honest conversations I have had with hundreds of people who needed this and could not find it anywhere else. This course is for you if you are tired of surface-level answers. If you want to actually understand and not just obey. If you are ready to walk in the wholeness you were always designed for. I genuinely believe KNOWN will give you what you have been looking for. And I cannot wait for you to experience it. Let's go. iamdestinedbydesign.com

Real students. Real breakthroughs. Real words.

This is what happens when the church finally has the conversation it should have had years ago.

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"I have learned in my walk with Christ about the importance of not treating sex casually  but Module 2 gave me something deeper. The breakdown of the word yada showed me that sex encompasses every facet of a person: spiritual, physical, and emotional. And then came this line that I will not forget: sex should be the celebration after already knowing someone. It is not the tool for knowing them. I have skimmed books that talk about sex. Compared to this course, they are good but they don't go into this depth. They don't include the psychosocial, the scientific, the spiritual, and the many other layers this course covers. I can't wait until everyone gets a chance to read this. This is truly a worthy investment."
— Mfon

Brooklyn, NY

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"The modules that stayed with me were Module 4 and Module 8. Module 4 broke down 1 Peter 5:8 in a way that made me understand that the enemy's entire strategy is to separate sex and our sexuality from its original design, ultimately attacking our identity in Christ. You addressed the small compromises, the mechanisms of temptation, the unholy desires that become patterns after being repeated. And then you said something that stopped me: the process can be interrupted if there's an understanding of its mechanism. You can't address what you are not aware of. Module 8 gave me this: 'You are ready to date when dating does not add or subtract from who you are. When you are so eager to be chosen, you will compromise your values to avoid being alone.' I needed that. This course has answered so many of my wondering questions. The reflection questions are direct and applicable. I will recommend this to myself, my siblings, every teenage boy and girl, every waiting single, and every mother who wants their children equipped with a tool like this. Thank you for your yes to this cause. Many lives, in addition to mine  are about to be greatly impacted."
Oluwatobi J.

First Reader

Curriculum

6 Chapters · 16 Lessons

  1. 1

    Welcome to KNOWN

    1. A Message From Damilola Free preview
    2. (Included in full purchase)

      Pre-Course Self-Assessment

  2. 2

    PHASE 1 — FOUNDATION

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      Why We're Even Having This Conversation

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      God Made Sex First

  3. 3

    PHASE 2 — REVELATION

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      The Enemy's Strategy: Distortion, Not Deletion

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      What Sex Actually Does To your Soul

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    PHASE 3 — FREEDOM

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      Soul Ties

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      The Battle of the Eyes

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      Virginity Was Never the Finish Line

  5. 5

    PHASE 4 — WISDOM

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      Dating, Discernment & Not Marrying a Project

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      When Waiting Gets Hard

  6. 6

    PHASE 5 — WHOLENESS

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      You Are More Than Your History

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      Inner Healing — When Purity Wasn't Your Choice

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      More Than Your Body: Identity, Image & Modesty

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      You Are KNOWN — Declaration & Next Steps

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      YOU FINISHED !

You have been carrying this long enough. KNOWN is the course that finally gives you what the church never did, the theology, the truth, and the identity declaration that no history can take from you. 13 modules. Real answers. A new story about who you are.

You don't have to understand everything to begin. You only have to be honest enough to show up. KNOWN is ready when you are.

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